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Bottle at Bedtime

Pediatrics Expert Advice from Shari Nethersole, M.D.

Q: Our child is 18 months old and goes to bed every night with a bottle. As parents, we wonder whether she will grow out of this or if we have to take it away from her. What are your thoughts?

A: You need to be proactive and take away the bottle. At this age, children become very attached to a bottle and they rarely volunteer to give it up on their own. If it's not taken away, some children may continue requesting the bottle until kindergarten!

Right now, she is using the bottle as her transitional object to help her fall asleep, and that's not a habit that you want to encourage. When children fall asleep sucking on a bottle, they often have the bottle in their mouth for a long period of time. This can lead to significant problems with tooth decay because the milk is bathing the teeth constantly. If you feel you must give her a bottle to take to bed, then put only water in it.

My general advice is to eliminate the bottle "cold turkey": Pick a day to do it, remind her a day or two before, then throw the bottles away on that day. Your daughter may then need some help developing another way to comfort herself as she learns how to fall asleep on her own. A favorite blanket or doll may be useful.

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Shari Nethersole is a physician at Children's Hospital, Boston, and an instructor in Pediatrics at Harvard Medical School. She graduated from Yale University and Harvard Medical School, and did her internship and residency at Children's Hospital, Boston. As a pediatrician, she tries to work with parents to identify and address their concerns.


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