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Parents -- Help or Hindrance in Choosing a College?
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Source: Charlotte Thomas, Career & Education Editor, Peterson's
As parents, you play a critical role in what college your children choose. Here are some ways you can help instead of hinder what is probably the first, most important decision your child will have to make.
Parents should evaluate their own goals for sending their children to college. However, "They need to recognize it's the son or daughter who will be attending the institution, not themselves," advises Carol Loewith, an educational consultant.
Parents are responsible for many of the values their children hold. But now that their child is assessing what he or she thinks is important, it's time for parents to step aside and allow the child to stand alone. "Parents can't be objective because they're too invested in their child," suggests Dr. Gary Ripple, Director of Admissions at Lafayette College.
Later in life your child will have to rely on his or her own decision-making capability. Now is the time to strengthen that skill. "Even a large, expensive decision about college starts with the facts, but the final choice is much more intuitive," says Ripple. Parents have to let their son or daughter know their feelings can be trusted.
"When they're dropped off on campus, students are the ones who will have to make college work," Ripple reminds parents. If parents fill out applications or tell a child what campus is best, the student will not be invested in the process. When Ripple sees an application that's been filled out by a parent, he knows that student is in trouble. "The parents won't be there to do assignments or take exams," he warns.
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