You and Your Money
The word money for you probably triggers both a practical and an emotional response. First, you may think about what you earn, the bills you have to pay, or what you'd like to buy in the future. This is your practical side.
You also may experience some emotional reaction to the word money. You may feel overwhelmed or need to feel in control. You may feel comfortable, or even cavalier.
Whatever you may be thinking or feeling about money can very well influence how your child views—and ultimately handles—money. A fall 1998 survey on Teens and Money by USA Weekend showed that 77 percent of those between the ages of 12 and 18 learned a lot about money matters from their parents.
Financial Building Blocks
According to a 1997 poll published in USA Today, adults say they learned money habits from their parents at an early age. Key habits included these:
| Budgeting money | 77 percent |
| Donating to charity | 80 percent |
| Shopping wisely | 85 percent |
Your Head and Your Money
As a parent, you face the demands of paying the rent or the mortgage, the doctor bills, the grocery store totals, and the cable TV bill every month. You probably also are planning for future expenditures, such as a new roof, a vacation, or your child's college education. You do this whether you like it or not, whether you feel comfortable or distressed. It's just your responsibility, and you try your best to handle it.
You map out how you're going to get the money you need, decide what you must or would like to spend it on, and how much you can save for the future. Again, being practical dictates your actions here.
Obviously, practicality is important because it allows you to deal with your money responsibilities every day.
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Excerpted from The Complete Idiot's Guide to Money-Smart Kids © 1999 by Barbara Weltman. All rights reserved including the right of reproduction in whole or in part in any form. Used by arrangement with Alpha Books, a member of Penguin Group (USA) Inc.
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