When to Start Day Care

Most experts advise waiting as long as possible before putting your child into day care.
Q
Is there any one age that is better for introducing a child to a day care? I have a four-month-old son who is normally happy and content, and making great strides for his age. I am concerned that when I return to work he may not make a good adjustment.
A
The people who are considered experts in this area would tell you that the later you are able to stay with your son before putting him into daycare, the better. Realistically, most parents wait as long as they can before going back to work, but many do have to return to jobs while babies are still young.

When your son begins going to daycare, make sure that you still have time to play with him before his bedtime and on weekends. You may also want to consider taking him to the daycare for partial days before you actually have to start work full-time so that he can get used to the setting gradually.

Barbara Potts has worked as an elementary school counselor for many years. She has a BA in psychology from Wake Forest University, and an M.Ed. in Guidance and Counseling from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro.

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