How to Avoid Car Craziness
From the day you bring your baby home from the hospital, strapped carefully into his new infant car seat, little lamby blanket tucked gently around him, cars have been part of his existence. Some kids love car rides, some don't. When you're tearing your hair out about car rides, remember that:
- Kids need to move their bodies; it's not optional, it's a biological need. Between car seats for little ones and seat belts for bigger ones, car trips can be a challenge.
- Car rides can be boring. Making it worse is the fact that many kids, maybe most, can't read or focus on something small like a drawing without getting carsick. That leaves talking, word games, singing, and socking your sister. (You can see how this would be a problem.)
- For brothers and sisters with tensions between them (and that's kind of a redundant statement, isn't it?), sitting right next to each other, confined, can feel almost unbearable. That's why car fights between screaming, pinching siblings are so common.
Tales from the Parent Zone
Cartoonist Lynn Johnston's son was a very active child. When he was little, Lynn wrapped his toys in lots and lots of paper and tape, and handed them back to him, one at a time. He'd be entertained for long periods of time by unwrapping and discovering his favorites.
So, are there solutions to these problems? No solutions per se, but there are ways to reduce car troubles.
- If you're on an extended car trip (more than a couple of hours), stop frequently. Plan breaks ahead of time by marking them on the map, about 45 minutes apart, and stopping, even if for five minutes, for a stretch break.
- Separate siblings with pillow barriers.
- Entertain kids with car tapes. Music is wonderful for changing the mood when the mood needs changing.
- Try word games. Find an object out the window beginning with each letter of the alphabet. Try a round of 20 questions. Even little ones can play “I Spy.”
- For older kids, try books on tape, available at your local video store or from the library. The whole family can enjoy the classics.
Behave Yourself!
Beware of driver's fatigue! Most fatal accidents happen in the wee hours of the morning because drivers fall asleep at the wheel. Don't push it!
- Goody bags of toys, surprises, and game suggestions are helpful. Allow them a new treat once an hour, or, when desperate, once every half hour.
- Avoid sugary snacks, sodas, juice, and candy as much as possible. Why hype the kid up any more than he already is?
- Rely heavily on food. I don't mean meals (you'll need mealtime as a chance to stretch the body), but healthful snacks. Bottles of water are a must, as well.
- Travel at night and let the kids doze.
Excerpted from The Complete Idiot's Guide to a Well-Behaved Child © 1999 by Ericka Lutz. All rights reserved including the right of reproduction in whole or in part in any form. Used by arrangement with Alpha Books, a member of Penguin Group (USA) Inc.
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