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The Eleven-Year-Old: Growing Up

Growth Patterns
Impulsive, moody, restless... How does your eleven-year-old grow? Click on the links below to see how.

Physical

  • Vast appetite for food and physical activity and talking
  • Growth spurt of early adolescence for some girls
  • Constant motion; restless
  • More illness: colds, flu, ear infections
  • Need for more sleep
  • Physical aggression not uncommon
  • Fine motor capability good
  • Social

  • Moody; sensitive
  • Oppositional; tests limits
  • Often does best away from home
  • Impulsive; rude; unaware
  • Loves to argue
  • Difficulty with decisions
  • Self-absorbed
  • Extremes of emotion
  • Inclusion/exclusion; height of cliques; seeks to belong
  • Language

  • Discovery of the telephone
  • Impulsive -- talks before thinking
  • Can be cruel
  • Argumentative; debater
  • Appreciates humor
  • Imitates adult language
  • Cognitive

  • Prefers new tasks and experiences to reflection or revision of previous work
  • Able to abstract
  • Deductive reasoning advances
  • Can establish and modify rules, develop hypotheses
  • Increased ability to de-center and see world from various perspectives
  • Loves to argue
  • From Yardsticks: Children in the Classroom Ages 4-14 by Chip Wood, © 1997 by Northeast Foundation for Children (800) 360-6332. All rights reserved as permitted under the US copyright Act of 1976. No part of this publication may be reproduced or distributed in any form or stored in a database or retrieval system without the prior written permission of the publisher.

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