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My Child Won't Eat
A child who won't eat may be having a power struggle with the parent. Find out why the problem...
Eight-Year-Old Won't Sleep by Himself
An expert explains why punishing a child for refusing to sleep in his own bedroom will not...
Three-Year-Old's Temper Tantrums
Are rage episodes "normal" behavior for a three-year-old? What causes them, and what can be...
Kids Who Bring Guns to School
Kids say the main reason they bring guns to school is to protect themselves from real and/or...
Disciplining a Two-Year-Old
Is tantrum-like behavior in a toddler normal, or is it a sign of trouble?...
Punishment for Stealing
Taking more and more privileges away from a child will only serve to make him unduly sad and...
Discipline Techniques for a Three-Year-Old
The reward-and-punishment system does a poor job at teaching kids to be responsible for their...
When Your Teen is Smoking
Don't punish your child for smoking.
Five-Year-Old Throwing Tantrums
An expert evaluates the possible reasons for a five-year-old's temper tantrums in public...
Son Blames Parents for His Problems
A skilled professional therapist/psychologist would never allow or encourage a child to blame...
Thong Underwear and Young Teen
A mother questions whether it would be inappropriate to allow her 14-year-old to wear thong...
Husband Yelling at Kids
Four-year-olds and two-year-olds are not going to be "good" all the time, and shouldn't be...
Bowel Control Problems in Six-Year-Old
Learn the best way to handle bowel control problems in school-age children.
Is My Son Ready for First Grade?
If a child didn't listen well in kindergarten, and is easily distracted, is he ready for first...
The Problems with Retention
Although repeating a grade can initially help a child academically, sometimes doing so can have...
Should Teen Be Grounded for Lying to Parents?
Grounding, no matter how long, is usually not very effective and is sometimes very hard to...
Seven-Year-Old Won't Go to Sleep
Giving your daughter consequences and/or taking away privileges is inappropriate and is not...
Fourth-Grader Forged Mom's Signature
The teacher and school therapist are very concerned that a child so young would forge a...
Teen Refuses to Go to School
What can a parent do when her child makes up her mind not to attend a particular school?...
Washing a Child's Mouth Out with Soap
Our expert says that washing a child's mouth out with soap is not discipline; it's cruelty.
What Is ODD?
Find out about Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), a syndrome where children have hostile,...
Daughter Spies on Parents' Lovemaking
A grandparent is upset that his granddaughter is spying on her parents' lovemaking.
Willful 13-Year-Old
Just because your situation has all the components of healthy parent-teen conflict doesn't mean...
Three-Year-Old Is Lying
An expert reassures a mother that it is normal for three-year-olds to lie.
ADD and Lying
It's not the lying that's the problem with most kids with ADHD. They need to learn specific...
Ten-Year-Old Sucks Thumb
Find out what our expert has to say about a ten-year-old who is still sucking her thumb.
Following Directions in Kindergarten
It's important to identify listening problems early -- before they can affect learning.
"Overactive" Three-Year-Old
Read what you should do when your three-year-old's preschool teachers label him "overactive."...
Aggressive Five-Year-Old
Whatever you do, don't let someone start convincing you that you could control your child's...
Son Is Being Picked on by Former Friends
Talking to the parents of harassers is not a good option, unless you know them well and are...
Five-Year-Old Threatens Suicide
Our expert recommends a professional therapist for an angry five-year-old who is threatening...
Handling a Disrespectful Teenager
Many approaches can work with a teen who's out of control, but they all take time -- so you...
Seven-Year-Old Is Stealing
After catching her seven-year-old stealing, a parents wants to know if she reacted...
Belly Button Piercing
A 13-year-old wants to get a belly button piercing, but you can say "no" to a tween without...
Student Has Crush on Teacher
Teachers should not be looking for girlfriends or boyfriends among their students.
Is Dating at Age 12 Okay?
Consider all the reasons why you decided that your daughter was too young to date, and you'll...
Breaking Divorce News to a Three-Year-Old
An expert gives some advice on how to help a three-year-old understand divorce.
Seventeen-Year-Old Is in Trouble with the Law
When a teen runs afoul of the law, it's important to let him know that you will support him in...
Teenagers Who Hate School
Find suggestions on how to deal with a teen who dislikes school.
My Teen Has No Friends
Find ways you can help develop your teen's social skills and encourage friendships.
Punishment for School Misbehavior?
Teachers should not ask parents to punish children for school misbehavior.
Discipline vs. Abuse
Discipline is not punishment, and hurting children physically should NEVER be a part of...
Teens Stealing from Mom
After such a serious infraction, these teens will have to work to reclaim their position in the...
Discipline Without Damage to Self-Esteem
If you build your child's self-esteem on a regular basis, you'll have the foundation and the...
What's a Fair Curfew for Teenagers?
An expert advises a parent to give her children the responsibility and trust that being 15 and...
Seven-Year-Old Misbehaves at Home and School
What should you do when a child never does what he's told?...
Is 14 Too Young to Date?
It's important to set boundaries for young teens, but letting them interact in safe, supervised...
Mother Wants to Discipline Son with Belt
Threatening to hit your six-year-old with a belt if he continues to bring home bad reports for...
Is 13 Too Young to Date?
Very few parents let their 13-year-olds date, but parents can placate their kids with coed...
Disciplining an 18-Year-Old Girl
Does a parent need to develop detailed binding contracts when a child turns 18?...

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