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Disciplining a Two-Year-Old
Is tantrum-like behavior in a toddler normal, or is it a sign of trouble?...
Teen Fired from Job
A parent wonders whether her son should receive additional punishment at home for a major...
Discipline Techniques for a Three-Year-Old
The reward-and-punishment system does a poor job at teaching kids to be responsible for their...
My Husband Spanks Our Son
There is no "good age to start" spanking a child.
Seven-Year-Old Won't Go to Sleep
Giving your daughter consequences and/or taking away privileges is inappropriate and is not...
Teenage Daughter Terrorizes Household
Parents often require help in setting boundaries and consequences for out-of-control children.
Willful 13-Year-Old
Just because your situation has all the components of healthy parent-teen conflict doesn't mean...
Seventh-Grader with a Bad Attitude
A seventh-grader who has already been suspended several times, and is showing such a temper, is...
Punishment for School Misbehavior?
Teachers should not ask parents to punish children for school misbehavior.
Is Spanking Appropriate Punishment?
Spanking is not a logical consequence for bad grades. There are other types of consequences...
Is 14 Too Young to Date?
It's important to set boundaries for young teens, but letting them interact in safe, supervised...
Sons Are Breaking Family Rules
When family rules are made, there should also be consequences set up for breaking them, which...
Is 13 Too Young to Date?
Very few parents let their 13-year-olds date, but parents can placate their kids with coed...
Teen Struggles with Authority
Boot camps and military schools would only make the situation worse and do nothing to address...
Eight-Year-Old Won't Sleep by Himself
An expert explains why punishing a child for refusing to sleep in his own bedroom will not...
Daughter Disrespectful to Mother
When an 11-year-old starts exhibiting bad behaviors, her parent may be in for a long protracted...
Punishment for Stealing
Taking more and more privileges away from a child will only serve to make him unduly sad and...
Playing with Matches
When a child starts playing with matches, it's time to have a calm, serious talk about the...
When Your Teen is Smoking
Don't punish your child for smoking.
Dad Is Overprotective of Daughter
A father who restricts telephone use is being overprotective. It is normal and appropriate for...
Husband Yelling at Kids
Four-year-olds and two-year-olds are not going to be "good" all the time, and shouldn't be...
Sixth-Grader Has Attitude Problems
Parents need to agree on some rules for their child, when an attitude problem sets in.
Should Teen Be Grounded for Lying to Parents?
Grounding, no matter how long, is usually not very effective and is sometimes very hard to...
Should 14-Year-Old Talk to Boys on the Phone?
Talking on the phone is a privilege, not a right. Whether teens are talking to boys or girls on...
Washing a Child's Mouth Out with Soap
Our expert says that washing a child's mouth out with soap is not discipline; it's cruelty.
Seventh-Grader Won't Turn in Homework
The only way any of us learn is through experience and tough consequences. Unfortunately, some...
Handling a Disrespectful Teenager
Many approaches can work with a teen who's out of control, but they all take time -- so you...
Mom Threatens to Slap Teen
Physical abuse is never the right response to misbehavior.
Belly Button Piercing
A 13-year-old wants to get a belly button piercing, but you can say "no" to a tween without...
The Social Butterfly
If your efforts to keep your social butterfly focused at school are not working, try something...
Is Dating at Age 12 Okay?
Consider all the reasons why you decided that your daughter was too young to date, and you'll...
Effective Discipline for Kids Ages Two and Six
Disciplining a two-year-old and a six-year-old are very different challenges.
Seventeen-Year-Old Is in Trouble with the Law
When a teen runs afoul of the law, it's important to let him know that you will support him in...
Disciplining a Toddler
Parents need to be on the same page style-wise, when it comes to all important parenting...
Discipline vs. Abuse
Discipline is not punishment, and hurting children physically should NEVER be a part of...
Does Spanking Prepare Kids for the Real World?
Neither children nor adults should be made to suffer shame for the everyday mistakes they make...
Discipline Without Damage to Self-Esteem
If you build your child's self-esteem on a regular basis, you'll have the foundation and the...
Problems Over Child's Bedwetting
There is more to this family problem than just your husband's responses to your daughter's...
Mother Wants to Discipline Son with Belt
Threatening to hit your six-year-old with a belt if he continues to bring home bad reports for...
Moderating Mom's Behavior
When a parent is consistently too harsh with her kids, a family therapist can help to restore a...
Disciplining an 18-Year-Old Girl
Does a parent need to develop detailed binding contracts when a child turns 18?...
Unfair Punishment by Teacher
A parent believes that her child was treated unfairly by his teacher after he was "involved" in...
Son Spends Too Much Time on Computer
It's not a healthy practice for a child to spend three to five hours per day on the computer.
Daughter Won't Listen
Our expert is concerned that a parent's attempts to correct a "listening" problem appear to be...
Scolding Without Shouting?
It is normal for children to test limits and try to get their way, as they shape their...
Different Discipline Styles
A mother deplores her ex-husband's discipline style, which includes a heavy dose of threats and...
Creating Effective Consequences
Creative, reasonable, logical consequences take thought and planning.
Positive Feedback in Sports
How can you keep your child grounded when he gets overly excited about his athletic...
Son Loses Car When Grades Fall
Our expert advises parents not to use the car as punishment.
Daughter Wants to Hang Out at the Mall
Is it unreasonable to forbid an 11-year-old from hanging out at the mall unsupervised with kids...

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